A beggar was sitting at the train station with a bowl full
of pencils. A young executive passed by and dropped a dollar in the bowl. He
then boarded the train. Before the doors closed, something came to his mind and
he went back to the beggar, grabbed a bunch of pencils, and said, "They
are priced right. After all you are a business person and so am I," and he
left.
Six months later, the executive attended a party. The beggar
was also there in a suit and tie. The beggar recognized the executive, went up
to him and said, "You probably don't recognize me but I remember
you." He then narrated the incident that happened six months before. The
executive said, "Now that you have reminded me, I do recall that you were
begging. What are you doing here in your suit and tie?" The beggar
replied, "You probably don't know what you did for me that day. You were
the first person in my life who gave me back my dignity. You grabbed the bunch
of pencils and said, 'They are priced right. After all, you are a business
person and so am 1.' After you left, I thought to myself, what am I doing here? Why am I begging? I decided to
do something constructive with my life. I packed my bag, started working and
here I am. I Just want to thank you for giving me back my dignity. That
incident changed my life."
What changed in the beggar's life?
What changed was that his self-esteem went up and so did his
performance. This is the magic of self-esteem in our lives. Simply put,
self-esteem is how we feel about ourselves. Our opinion of ourselves critically
influences everything, from our performance at work, our relationships, and our
role as a parent to our accomplishments in life. Self esteem is a major
component in determining success or failure. High self-esteem leads to a happy,
gratifying and purposeful life. Unless you perceive yourself as worthwhile, you
cannot have high self-esteem. All great world leaders and teachers throughout
history have concluded that one must be internally driven in order to be a
success.
There is a story about a farmer who planted pumpkins on his
land. For no reason, he put a small pumpkin, hanging by the vine into a glass
jar. At harvest time, he saw that the pumpkin had grown, equivalent only to the
shape and size of the jar. Just as the pumpkin could not grow beyond the
boundaries restricting it, human beings cannot perform beyond the boundaries of
their self-concept, whatever it may be.
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